ELLA PUGALUM ERAIVANUKE

Friday, February 27, 2015

35 Ways to Respect your children views and ways to know them in a better way.





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1. Put away your phone in their 
     presence.


2. Pay attention to what they are saying.


3. Accept their opinions.


4. Engage in their      
     conversations.


5. Look at them with respect.


6. Always praise them.


7. Share good news with them.


8. Avoid sharing bad news with 
    them.


9. Speak well of their friends 
    and loved ones to them.


10. Keep in remembrance the  
      good things they did.


11. If they repeat a story, listen 
      like it's the first time they 
      tell it.


12. Don't bring up painful 
       memories from the past.


13. Avoid side conversations in 
      their presence.


14. Sit respectfully around 
       them.


15. Don't belittle/criticize their 
      opinions and thoughts.


16. Avoid cutting them off when    they speak.


17. Respect their age.


18. Avoid hitting/disciplining 
      their grandchildren around 
      them.


19. Accept their advice and 
      direction.


20. Give them the power of  
      leadership when they are 
      present.


21. Avoid raising your voice at 
      them.


22. Avoid walking in front or 
      ahead of them.


23. Avoid eating before them.


24. Avoid glaring at them.


25. Fill them with ur 
      appreciation even when 
      they don't think they 
      deserve it.


26. Avoid putting your feet up in front of them or sitting with your back to them.


27. Don't speak ill of them to 
      the point where others 
      speak ill of them too.


28. Keep them in prayers 
      always possible.


29. Avoid seeming bored or 
      tired of them in their 
      presence.


30. Avoid laughing at their 
      faults/mistakes.


31. Do a task before they ask 
      you to.


32. Continuously visit them.


33. Choose your words carefully    when speaking with them.


34. Call them by names they 
       like.


35. Make them your priority 
      above anything.



Children's are parents treasure and their most precious gift on this land. 


They must have seen the world lesser than you but they see it in a different way which you need to appreciate. 


Listen to them and try giving them as much time as you can. 


These moments are more precious than anything in this world.

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